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Pack things to take to hospital:
– Wash cloth (for wiping face and relieving thirst) check
– Lip balm to prevent dried/chapped lips whilst breathing heavilycheck
– CD player with soothing music and courage musiccheck
– Video camera, Camera, film, flash check
– Snacks, drinks, ice chips, cooler, sandwiches check
– Something to focus on during contractionscheck
– Beanie bag or sock filled with brown rice to warm up in microwave for lower back or belly pain check
– Rescue remedy for shock and trauma check
– Something to wear: check
During labor
During delivery
On trip home
– Nightgowns, robe, slippers check
– Bra’s (nursing) check
– Disposable panties for the first few days after birth check
– Heavy socks check
– Baby clothes check
– Baby book – for foot prints, etc. check
– Doula … ahh…cross
– Midwife … ummm…cross

Well most new parents have a list similar to this with a whole lot more too. There are very few that consider the doula or the midwife an essential part of giving birth.

Here’s a little look at the difference between maternity caregivers.

A midwife provides personalised and supportive care during natural childbirth. She is trained and qualified to assist in any possible complications that may arise in childbirth and she can take preventative as well as emergency measures to ensure safety for all. Since she is usually with women in natural childbirth her experience is wide and varied and to some extent far superior to that of an obstetrician.

An obstetrician is trained and qualified in high care obstetrics and is an invaluable resource when there are known complications or problems. Women who are high risk usually birth with obstetricians since they are experienced in this kind of management. It is understandable that since these specialised doctors (because this is what they are – specialised in obstetrics) see so many complications in their practice that they become less trusting of the natural process. They are on the lookout for any possible or probable problems that may occur thus in some occasions they produce the very thing they wish to avoid – a complication. If you are healthy and having an uncomplicated pregnancy you should be looking for a midwife to deliver your baby.

A doula, on the other hand is someone who is trained to support (as if women need training for this sort of thing, it comes naturally) labouring women. They do not provide any medical support even though they have an educated understanding of what is happening. The doulas role is strictly for the parents support, emotionally, physically and psychologically. A doula can complement a birth witha midwife as well as with an obstetrician. I like to think of the doula as someone who bridges the gap between the medical world and the parents reality.

So whatever your decision is, having a doula at your birth kind of gives you the best of all worlds!


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1. Childbirth is a profound rite of passage, not a medical event (even when medical care is part of the birth).

2. The essence of childbirth preparation is self-discovery, not assimilating obstetric information.

3. The teacher is “midwife” to the parents’ discovery process, not the expert from whom wisdom flows.

4. Childbirth preparation is a continually evolving process (for parents and teachers), not a static structure of techniques and knowledge.

5. Parents’ individual needs and differences determine class content.

6. Active, creative self-expression is critical to childbirth preparation.

7. The purpose of childbirth preparation is to prepare mothers to give birth-in-awareness, not to achieve a specific birth outcome.

8. Pregnancy and birth outcome are influenced by a variety of factors, but can’t be controlled by planning.

9. In order to help parents mobilize their coping resources, it is critical for childbirth classes to acknowledge that unexpected, unwelcome events may happen during labour.

10. Parents deserve support for any birth option which might be right for them (whether it is drugs, technology, home birth, or bottle- feeding).

11. Pain is an inevitable part of childbirth, yet much can be done to ease suffering.

12. Pain coping techniques work best when integrated into daily life, rather than “dusted off” for labour.

13. Fathers help best as birth guardians or loving partners, not as coaches; they also need support.

14. For parents, pregnancy, birth, and postpartum is a time of continuous learning and adjustment; holistic support and education should be available throughout that period.

15. Childbirth preparation is also parent preparation.

 For further information please contact Rosalia 082 780-8965 or email rosalia@birthing.co.za

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